4+ Million Reasons and a Kid

It\’s sometimes difficult to understand the federal and state (for my purposes, Illinois) estate tax regimes and how they may affect you and your family. So this post and next week\’s post will try to explain visually and very simply, what the implications may or may not be. And this visual is so simple that it serves a dual purpose – it illustrates why some things should be left to graphic designers and not clipart. This week shows what can happen through December 31 of this year. Next week, you\’ll get to see 2013. 7 Points to Ponder: If you\’ve a minor child, then doing it yourself (DIY) is a bad idea; If you\’ve real property, then the Small Estate Affidavit probably won\’t work in Illinois; If you\’ve more than $100K in personal and/or real property, then a DIY will likely end with your loved ones in court; A trust should generally always include a will but court shouldn\’t be part of the deal; If loved ones end up in court with a sizable estate on a dispute regarding the estate\’s value, then they may also end up with a tax bill; The typical cost to probate a will in Illinois (take it to court) starts at about $2500; If the trust is valid and the estate is under $5.12M, then both Uncles should walk away empty-handed.
6 Not-so-Legal Ways to Protect Your Family

It seems there\’s a week, day, or month to celebrate every relationship and, accordingly, the third week in October has been designated \”National Estate Planning Week.\” Why we, estate planners, have a week dedicated to our practice area may, at first glance, seem self-aggrandizing. Yet, estate planning isn’t about lawyers but estate planning is about how individuals can protect their loved ones. Lawyers and other professionals simply guide the way. So instead of calling this week “National Estate Planning Week” maybe we should call it “National Family Fortification Week,” hmmm… Then again, I was going to suggest “National Family Planning Week” but that, too, could have been very misleading. Well, as they say, “a rose by any other name…” Throughout The Lotus Rules (fka the Shark Free Zone) are pieces explaining why estate planning is for everyone and not only the 1 percenters, discussions on basic estate planning documents, analyses on historical and pending cases and legislation involving relationship rights, and scary stories about car crashes and funeral home terrorists. However, I think this is the first post on point for fortifying your family, so welcome. Take simple steps early. If you’re a working young adult with loved ones, then you need a plan to keep potential serious illness or untimely demise from causing your loved ones even more grief. Your plan could be as simple as Powers of Attorney and life, health, and disability insurances. Tell your loved ones that they are indeed loved: “Mom, I won’t let you mortgage the house to pay for my medical bills and, here’s the agent information for all of my insurances.” Tears will probably flow but they\’ll be happy, proud tears. Teach your children the important lessons about life and money early, e.g., age 6, exemplify for them that living a happy and productive life is the goal and money is one tool that can help them reach that goal. Tailor your goals for you and your family; you\’re unique. An estate plan isn’t a goal; it’s another tool. Still, some wrenches are better than others. The same thing applies with respect to estate plans. A good estate plan just doesn’t involve obtaining life insurance, throwing funds in a retirement account, and creating a will. Those are good steps, but before taking those steps consider who will be your trusted advisors. Who\’ll take the time to get to know you and your family, work the plan, helping guide you and your family along over the next few decades? Take your time. OK, so you didn’t start out when you should have and you haven’t taken any steps yet, but holy crap, someone very close to you just passed away and surviving are kids, a dog, a spouse and…you want to do something NOW! Don’t. Well, don’t make any rash decisions, interview a few attorneys, talk to a few friends, chat with a few financial planners, and after the pain of losing a loved one has lessened, then start building your team. It will likely save you tons of resources down the road. Trust your team. Because of the attorney-client privilege issue, loved ones are not typically part of the initial consultation, but sometimes, if they\’re the cornerstone of the family or if a family business is involved, perhaps they should be. Make the initial meeting a \”let\’s get acquainted\” team meeting loved ones and professional advisors can give each other the \”sniff test.\” Discuss the broad strokes: wanting to ensure that the family is protected, that everyone knows who the “team” is, and create a comfortable, collaborative environment. Then later you can meet or speak with the attorney one-on-one regarding specifics. Estate planning is a technical practice with many complex moving parts, but some fundamentals have nothing to do with instruments and everything to do with being a loving family member.
4 Occasions When a Will Won\’t Work

Recently, law students received the following hypothetical to answer: “Ms. Angel Booth has phoned you, Ms./Mr. Associate, and said, “Hi, this is Angel Booth and I want to set up a will because I want to completely disinherit my daughter.” What is your response?” After getting rid of the “deer-in-headlights” look, the students came up with a myriad of answers. Yet and unfortunately, this isn’t an uncommon scenario and for valid reasons. Furthermore, this occurs not just between parents and children, but between as many relationship pairings as you can think of. Still, this scenario goes to reason number 1. Using a will is a tenuous proposition at best if you’re trying to disinherit an heir. Admittedly, I’m being a tad hyperbolic, because it can work – after a lengthy court battle involving lawyers, doctors, and a ton o\’ family members. To disinherit an immediate heir, in Illinois, using a standalone will where the value of the estate is more than $100,000 in personal or real property will beg for a contest and bye-bye goes a large portion of the estate – in probate litigation. Mamma Mega Millions Marries Gorgeous. Yes, you’ve been smitten by the most gorgeous, decades younger, individual walking the planet. You’ve worked your petooty off as a single mother, put your children and your siblings through university, and now want to enjoy the million-dollar fruits of your labor with Gorgeous in the bounds of matrimony. You will probably be advised to have an airtight prenuptial agreement. You also want a will prepared, but a will that leaves most of those millions to Gorgeous will shout, “Probate Litigation!” and siblings, children, BFFs, third cousins, you name it will probably shout back with claims against the estate. Grandpa Disses Daughter-in-Law. So, while it can’t be proven that she murdered your dearly departed son, you, Grandpa, just don’t agree on anything with your daughter-in-law about your grandchildren. In your opinion, she isn’t parenting the way your loving son would have. Still, you’ve saved about $30,000 that you want the children, ages 7 and 8 to have upon your death. I previously wrote about the imprudence of leaving substantial financial gifts outright to minors. This is another example. In Illinois, if a minor receives a substantive gift, e.g., more than $10,000, the funds must be transferred into a restricted vehicle for the minor whereby the guardian or custodian is given control. Typically, the guardian or custodian is an adult member of the minor’s family, i.e., Dastardly Daughter-in-Law or a trust company. Thirty-thousand dollars isn’t usually sufficient for a trust company; thus, DDIL will likely gain control over the $30,000. Calling Dr. Cooper. Finally, setting aside seedy scenarios, let’s consider Dr. Amy Cooper. She has a thriving practice with three other doctors and has started accumulating a substantive portfolio. She doesn’t mind paying her fair share of taxes, but doesn’t want her beneficiaries to pay more than their fair share either. Leaving everything outright to her partner and children in a will, however, results in the very thing she doesn’t want.
3 Traps to Avoid Wrapped in \”No Charge\”

There I was, sitting in a seminar, as my colleague began lecturing on powers of attorney. I was actually interested in hearing the next presentation on a more complex matter but, of course, you never know what nuggets can be gleaned from a refresher on the basics. Plus, Illinois laws change all the time. So I sat and appeared interested while deciding what to cook for dinner when suddenly another panelist blurted out quite fervently, “I disagree! A durable power of attorney is not better than a springing power of attorney!” My ears perked up; no one loves a good shark fight better than a little guppy like me. Somewhere in the annals of The Shark Free Zone is an article or 2 explaining POAs. However, as a refresher, powers of attorney are authorizations to allow others to make important decisions on your behalf when you’re incapacitated. Property POAs allow agents to make financial decisions. Healthcare POAs allow agents to make healthcare decisions. Individuals think because these documents are free that they’re simple. Well…let’s return to the shark fight. A durable POA goes into effect upon signing and lasts through incapacity until death. A springing POA has a designated beginning and ending, even though the agent signs the document. For example, the Illinois Statutory Power of Attorney forms suggest one designates a springing term to begin or end upon the determination of incapacity by a court. This suggestion shows why such basic forms aren’t so basic, even though free, and why they should be carefully reviewed before making the designations and taking the suggestions. Trap 1: Waiting until a court determination of incapacity in order to act under a property POA may result in financial mayhem if a loved one is too ill to pay the bills. Occasionally, individuals will say, “I don’t need a property POA because my child is also on my bank account with me.\” Trap 2: When a person is a joint owner on your bank account, that person’s creditor or creditors can place a lien or liens on the whole account. People also sometimes ask, “I have a living will, so do I really need a healthcare POA?\” If I were the smart-ass sixteen year-old I once was, then my answer would be, “Well, if the only time you want your agent to act is if there is a question about when to pull the plug, then no.” However, I am very far from being 16, thank goodness, and so I answer accordingly: A healthcare POA can include living will language and more. You can give you agent the authority to talk with doctors about your medical allergies, your medical history, and more. Trap 3: A living will only applies to individuals with terminal illnesses or who are in a vegetative state. A lot more can happen to one between a cold and a coma, and it helps you and your loved ones if you’re prepared for that “in-between-time.” Free doesn’t necessarily mean easy and suggestions are not rules.
4 Points to Ponder for Your Peace of Mind

The house is quiet. The treat you bought yourself is still in the fridge. You and your spouse have a dinner date in the middle of the week. Your cell phone is no longer a constant reminder of the triple life you lead: companion, professional, and parent. You’re a tad stiff in the morning, but nothing that a few asanas and a hot cup of coffee won’t cure. Plus, there’s nothing wrong with a little stiffness after the decades you’ve spent working out, right? Right. Your mind continually and comfortably drifts off to favorite travel destinations or that mid-week date during meetings you must attend in order to be a “sober second” when asked; and you’re getting asked less and less, thank goodness. Life is . . . pretty good. So, while you have some time on your hands, allow me to provide you with 4 points to ponder related to that pretty good life. Your children are out of the house for good, leading their own lives with their own families. Does this mean you have grandchildren to enjoy and then return to the fray? If so, have you thought about providing or helping to provide for their education? Your career has moved right along or your wok has become more and more tolerable. You’ve gone this far, so you’re in it for the long haul. Have you thought about what to do if, working near the end of the long haul, you are injured for a substantial length of time? Can you afford it? Do you have long term disability insurance or a strategy viable to ensure that you’ll still be able to assist with educating the little brutes or brutesses once they’re about to enter high school or university? The end of the long haul is clearly in sight. Accordingly, the previous point bears revisiting. Also, do you have a strategy for making it through the “Golden Years” comfortably? Do you know how you’re going to draw down your retirement funds so to maximize your money and minimize your taxes? People are living longer now so our resources must keep up. Will you be able to just sit on that old porch swing and smile? Family isn’t charity; it isn\’t a cause. Family is a wonderful responsibility and gift shared amongst its members. However, as those responsibilities, even to ourselves, wane and are fulfilled, how have we shown responsibility toward our community? Is there an organization, a group, a center whose work you admire and would like to try to help ensure the work and programming will continue? You see, estate planning isn’t just about planning for death. These 4 points to ponder prove it. How are you going to (1) help family, (2) help yourself heal peacefully, (3) protecting your porch swing, and (4) helping your community?
With this Ring, I Don\’t Civil Union or Wed

Several articles on The Shark Free Zone discuss challenges married or Civil Union couples face. However, their challenges, especially in terms of planning and protecting their families, are minimal compared to cohabiting couples. And before I continue, let me say that not wanting to subject your relationship to institutional constraints is understandable. With the divorce rate in the U.S. between 40-60%, whether you’re a same-sex couple or a straight couple who consciously decides against obtaining legal status for your relationship, your decision ultimately may be more pragmatic. I’m thinking Kurt and Goldie. However, the decision to cohabit will currently cost you and your partner more than 1100 state and federal government benefits. The decoupling of these benefits from cohabiting couples results in the above-mentioned challenges. Nevertheless, planning tools exist that are universally applicable, irrespective of your relationship status, tools such as powers of attorney, certain types of life insurance, and certain retirement accounts. Additionally, you and your partner can take other definitive steps to protect your relationship. Furthermore, these steps, which are gender-neutral, can help your family today and tomorrow. Prepare A Property Sharing Agreement. One of my favorite TV shows is The Big Bang Theory and, admittedly though Leonard tugs at my heartstrings and I LOL at Raj and Howard’s “bromance,” I identify most closely with Sheldon. Sheldon has a roommate agreement that probably puts most prenupts to shame. Among some of its provisions, is an outline of who owns what, how the asset should be replaced if the other party destroys it, and how property bought together, such as a life-size authentic Time Machine, should be divided if the relationship ceases and one roomie moves out. The cohabiting relationships I’m discussing in this article are, of course, more substantive than roommates, but the premise is the same: list what you own together and separately and acknowledge it on a legally signed document. Seek Adoption. If one of you is a biological parent with sole custody of the child, a second-parent adoption by your partner, if he or she is a non-biological parent, is critical. Otherwise that person will have no legal rights if the biological parent becomes incapacitated, dies, or decides to end the relationship. Trust the Trust. Both of you place your express intentions in a valid trust. A will can be challenged and the gender composite of your relationship is irrelevant. Nasty courtroom battles have occurred between family members who opposed the surviving partner’s share because of religion, age, or other cultural reasons that had nothing to do with the couple’s gender orientation. In a nutshell, what must a couple do to protect their non-institutionalized relationship? Document the sharing and put all agreements in a valid contract whose benefits aren’t derived from or through federal, state, or local governments. Other than that, enjoy your loving and stable family just like everyone else enjoys theirs. In the words of Tommy Llewellyn-Thomas: Noli spurios te contundere.
Fact v. Fiction about Echo-Birdies

As couples mature and children grow less dependent, we start considering life without “the little birdies.” Often, at this stage, if a couple hasn’t created an estate plan or revisited it in years, they decide to continue postponing the initial visit or revisit. Especially if the children are in their late teens, near or in college, a couple or parent postpones this work thinking that planning with the children in mind is nearly over. However, articles and commercials abound about the return of the little birdies…indefinitely. What’s worse is that upon the return, the little birdies sometimes don’t contribute financially to the household maintenance but instead use resources without replenishing them. So I caution people who say to themselves, “Ahhh, she’s in grad school now; we can relax,” to think again, long and hard. Once the children are relatively independent, i.e., still maturing financially and emotionally, parents should revisit the following questions: What are our goals in 10 years and are we on track? What do we want to protect? How should we protect it? Revisiting the Goals If you own a home, you probably want to protect it. Yes, you may consider downsizing or changing geographic locales, but you’re still likely to want to protect ownership of your primary residence. Also, if your child has been accepted or is in the college application process, you’ll probably to want to protect the college education. You’ve saved and worked smartly with a CFP and CPA, and you don’t want to blow your child’s opportunity. Still, what if your child is brilliant or extremely talented and ears a full scholarship? Finally, how’s that retirement planning going? If you, your spouse, partner, or child experience a long-term illness, would you be able to manage financially without sacrificing retirement income? The Fiction v. Fact about Protecting Those Goals Place your home in trust. Fiction: It protects homes from creditors. Fact: Not necessarily. If a homeowner is Trustee of the house placed in trust, that homeowner’s creditors can place a lien on that trust. Even land trusts are permeable. Place education savings in a 529 account. Fiction: 529s are the only way to pay for your child’s education other than traditional savings. Fact: 529s are beneficial under certain circumstances. Other considerations are balancing the funding of this college savings account with saving for retirement. Again, what is your primary financial goal? Place retirement proceeds in a trust. Fiction: Naming a trust as beneficiary for retirement proceeds will reduce or eliminate tax burdens. Fact: Naming a trust as beneficiary for retirement proceeds may actually create undesired tax burdens depending on the retirement account requirements and the trust involved. It may also create problems when required distributions must be made. So putting off a visit or a revisit to an estate plan because the birdies have flown or are about to fly the coop, could be detrimental to future life stages for you and the birdies. Furthermore, if they come back, well, consider learning about landlord and tenant rights. That’s what my grandmother did!
5 Key Blocks for the Build-A-Baby Life Stage

Helping new families through my practice is one of the great benefits of my job. It soothes my soul because I know the family will be protected sooner rather than later and we will all sleep better, though the infants rarely have a tough time sleeping soundly. However, becoming a new parent isn’t always easy. The gamete meeting sometimes just doesn’t take place as soon as we want it to; sometimes our gametes just don’t want to meet at all. On these occasions, Artificial Reproductive Technology (ART) can play a very important role. However, ART can be costly, financially and emotionally. I was on a panel with Lambda Legal a few months ago and an audience member referred to the financial program designed by his company to help parents with this issue as the “Build-A-Baby” program. This particular department helped couples design their financial planning so they could afford ART, which can cost thousands of dollars per month and when you factor in particular types of adoptions, the final costs can be hundreds of thousands of dollars. And, as mentioned, that’s just the financial burden. The emotional burden of waiting and hoping is equally heavy, if not heavier. As opposed to ART, either parent or both parents can take an alternative route and adopt. Still, just as with ART and as above sometimes including ART, adoption can be costly and is always emotionally burdensome. Consequently, it is critical that parents understand how they can protect each other and their families at the very beginning, even, sometimes, before the birth occurs. Another panel I was on recently described it as “Building Your Family Fortress.” The following are the cornerstones for today\’s family, whether you use ART, adopt, or your gametes meet the old-fashioned way: Obtain life insurance that will at least replace the primary wage-earner’s salary for 3-5 years. Have powers of attorney – healthcare and property (what some states refer to as including “advanced directives”) prepared for both parents. Free drafts of Illinois powers of attorney are available here. If you’re a same-sex couple, be sure if one of you is the biological parent, then the other adopts the child. The U.S. is still a patchwork of states, some recognizing your legal rights in a Civil Union or same-sex marriage, and others not. The same applies for straight couples who are not married and one parent is the biological parent. If you’re using ART with an unknown donor, the parent carrying the child should designate the other parent as a short-term guardian to go into effect at some point in time until the adoption is complete. Obtain valid wills, irrespective of the gender-orientation of your relationship because you need to ensure that the guardian of your child is who you want the guardian to be in the case of your death. For straight couples, it is critical that you name a successor guardian. Other blocks can also be used, but these 5 bricks represent the cornerstones of a solid fortress that will protect your family now and in the future.
5 Ways to Protect 4 Critical Relationships

As mentioned in a previous post, once an adult starts working and accumulating assets, even if they’re simply a car and nice living room furniture, he or she also needs to start protecting their livelihood. The same holds twice as true for young couples.* Couples sometimes erroneously believe that they don’t need to protect themselves or their relationship until they get married, enter into a Civil Union, or have children. However, just like working single adults need protection, so do “young” couples. Therefore, once a decision to reside in one household as a loving and committed couple is made, the documents previously discussed – powers of attorney and life insurance – should be revisited to reflect this relationship. Moreover, depending on the legal status of the relationship, or the lack thereof, legally documenting your agreement about your assets is very important. For example, in Illinois, if you’re cohabiting, your relationship lacks legal recognition except by contract. Therefore, an agreement to share expenses and property is the bare minimum of what is required to at least document your relationship and its affect on your assets. Additionally, ensuring your testamentary documents – a valid will and trust – reflect your intentions toward your partner and the rest of your family is equally important. If a cohabiting partner dies intestate (without a will), unlike the surviving partner in a Civil Union or legally married couple, the surviving cohabiting partner will have no rights under Illinois laws. However, the next of kin to the deceased will have rights. Therefore, unless a document, such a shared expense and property agreement, is in place with mounds of receipts and statements providing supporting evidence of the agreement, the surviving partner will have no way of retaining assets that were obtained as a couple. Still, even with this agreement in place, the decedent’s relatives may still challenge by asserting their rights to inheritance under Illinois’ intestacy laws. Thus, to prevent a possible brouhaha, it’s advisable to have at least a valid will prepared, designating your partner as a beneficiary. But remember, because a will is public – see Whitney Houston’s will – your family gets to see who gets what. And if you have an evil twin who doesn’t like what he or she sees, the brouhaha will not be averted. So then what? You might have a revocable living trust prepared. Trusts are private – you can’t see what Michael Jackson left – and become irrevocable upon the grantor’s (trust maker’s) death. Civil Union and legally married couples are more fortunate than cohabiting couples with a caveat for Civil Union couples. The right to inherit and renounce bequests are generally universal rights for spouses through the U.S. and Civil Union couples typically have all the rights of spouses. However, Civil Union couples are not recognized in all states, so spousal rights are not available, placing them in the same position as cohabiting partners in unfriendly states. So for couples without children and without consideration for probate proceedings, the most basic ways to protect your relationships may resemble this:
Crashes, Collapses & Conflagrations, Oh My!

Living in Chicago, the second largest legal community in the U.S., has its benefits: I meet great colleagues who have a wealth of information valuable not only to their clients but also to the general public. So occasionally, The Shark Free Zone will feature a colleague who is willing to share his or her insights. This week, I welcome friend and colleague, Stephen L. Hoffman, discussing injuries, accidents, and insurance to help us protect our loved ones and property… Many of us try to avoid planning for our future. Much as we defer creation of estate planning documents, we are also unprepared when it comes to some basic, everyday requirements such as what to do in the event of an accident. Each year in Illinois, nearly 500,000 auto collisions occur and over 100,000 work injuries or illnesses are sustained. Auto collisions, work accidents, and home fires occur. Odds are that you, a family member, or contact will be involved in one of those events at some point. Personally, I have experienced a fire in my condominium building and an automobile collision, all within the last 5 years. And I\’m careful, cautious, and none were my fault. If you fail to verify that you have adequate insurance coverage, your life could be altered permanently, with no opportunity to undo the damage. If you ARE involved in an accident, then you should be prepared to do or have available a few basic things: Have your automobile insurance information with you and exchange it with the other driver and police. Take photographs of the scene, while you are still there, if possible. Get photos of all vehicles and persons involved, the cause of your fall, any visible injuries, or debris. This preserves evidence. Get medical treatment immediately. Insurance companies WILL use any delay in treatment against you! Contact the police, fill out an incident report, or write about the accident in some way. DO NOT SPEAK to anyone about this. DO NOT give a statement to an insurance adjuster! Contact an attorney immediately. More cases go south early on than at any other point. With respect to insurance, consider the following: Whether you are a driver, owner of a home, or the owner of a business, make sure you understand what your insurance covers and that your coverage is adequate. Get the most coverage from the best-rated company you can afford. Check your liability limits on your car policy. If you have any assets and your limits are below $500,000.00, you probably need to reexamine them. All it takes is a moment of inattention by a driver, including you, who may be uninsured or grievously underinsured, to lose your house, savings, and well-being. If you have substantial assets, a personal liability umbrella policy is likely well within your reach financially, and definitely worthwhile. Know what your homeowner\’s policy provides for in certain events, e.g., a fire in an adjoining condo unit. Can you move into a temporary residence if yours is uninhabitable and for how long? What is the damages limit? Tidbits Auto Insurance Illinois is a mandatory auto insurance state. However, this means that many people only have the BARE MINIMUM in coverage. If YOUR coverage (Uninsured Motorist and Underinsured Motorist) is not robust, you could conceivably be involved in a collision that is not your fault, with virtually no coverage available. Condominium/Homeowner\’s Insurance If you live in a condo, make sure your governing documents require other unit owners to maintain insurance on their units. All it takes is one accidental fire in one unit or a leak that causes a ceiling collapse to leave you and the rest of the association liable. Workers\’ Compensation The Illinois Workers\’ Compensation Act provides for payment of medical benefits, lost wages, and permanency for those injured while performing their job functions. This includes injuries occurring outside of an office and while in transit to or from a job usually. Plan ahead and be ready for the inevitable! Stephen L. Hoffman is the founder of Law Office of Stephen L. Hoffman LLC, a Boutique Personal Injury and Workers\’ Compensation law firm located in Chicago. Stephen is now in his 23rd year of practice representing injured people and fighting for their rights with dignity. Contact Stephen by phone (773-944-9737) or email stephen@hofflawyer.com. Information about Stephen and ways to further access him are through his blog and website, LinkedIn, Twitter (@hofflaw), and AVVO.