What Happens if You Die Without a Will While On Vacation?
It was going to be the best honeymoon ever. We met a couple of years post-divorce for both of us, and fell madly in love with each other and each other’s children. We were financially secure and each of us had our own wealth and intended to keep our assets separate.
The water was beautiful and blue and the waves were amazing. We went out on our boards and out of nowhere appeared a grey fin, an ugly snout, and then menacing black eyes. She freaked out, fell off, that thing opened its snout, showed teeth, and the center half – 1/3 – of my new wife’s body disappeared.
Then all hell broke loose.
We had quickly prepared powers of attorney prepared before we left and were planning to have an estate plan prepared by an attorney once we returned.
My wife was particular about how she wanted her remains disposed – she wanted to be buried in the most sustainable and economical way. At the hospital, researchers appeared and refused to release her body. Unlike our home state, in this state, doctors were the final decision-makers on dispositions of remains. So I had to leave her remains in a strange place. I’m also going to have to pay thousands of dollars to a healthcare system because we didn’t have traveller’s insurance.
When I returned home, I learned that some of her accounts had no designated beneficiaries, so instead of everything going to her children, her children will have to split everything with me. When they found out about that, they began blowing up my cell phone asking me what I intended to do.
Of course, I intend to give them the 100% of my share but one of them is a spendthrift – money burns holes through their pockets and my wife was adamant about being careful how much to give to this child on a regular basis. That has caused some friction between all my stepchildren.
Also, since my wife had no Will or Trust, her estate must go through probate. In this state, because I’m the surviving spouse, I have preference in acting as an administrator for her estate. This issue also created discord between me and my stepchildren.
That frickin’ shark!
I think what I’m going to do is use part of my half to create a trust for the spendthrift child to shelter at least part of their share of the estate, and they are not going to like that, but I know it’s what my wife would have wanted. She would have been very upset with the fact that this kid, who she actually suspected as being a functional addict, is going to obtain 1/6 of their share completely outright. I really hope the kids don’t blow through their inheritance; they are still young adults, just a few years out of college.
Her estate was rather large, so I also must obtain insurance to cover the value of her estate, which cost the kids thousands of dollars. My wife was also working with a tax professional because she also had a significant tax liability that they were disputing with the IRS. That means I can’t distribute her estate to the kids (or anyone else) until that issue is resolved. How am I going to explain that to the kids? Maybe I can provide a partial distribution, but I still need to have some appraisals done – she owned a couple of rental properties and a small online business. I really miss her – she was fun but brilliant.
This is a mess…
And a fictional story…kinda
