Approximately 70% of Americans who should leave some sort of testamentary document or trust behind when they die don’t.
Why? Because we don’t like thinking about the day when we’re no longer going to be around, let alone talking about it, and heaven forbid planning for it. So we procrastinate until we end up dead with loved ones on the cusp of committing murder or worse – battling each other in probate court until attorneys’ fees have engulfed most of the estate.
I offer a few suggestions:
- Don’t be like Sonny Bono who died without a will and left his widow to battle with a man claiming to be Chaz’s illegitimate half-brother.
- If you’re married or in a civil union, try not to repeat Barry White’s mistake. “The Maestro” died not only intestate, i.e., without a will, but also without having divorced his first wife with whom he’d been estranged for decades. So if you’re going to put off the inevitable, don’t put off making your divorce or break-up legally valid. The Barry White Wars: (1) between long-time lover and mother of last child and estranged wife of about 20 years and mother of four, and (2) between his 9 children.
- Not that I think that many would share in the aspirations of Anna Nicole Smith, those who are reading this should consider when drafting your current estate plan that you may have another child after the plan is effectuated. So try not to accidentally disinherit the second child by leaving everything to your “only child, INSERT NAME HERE.”
- Finally, if you can satisfy suggestions 1 – 3 successfully, remember not to “be like Mike,” Michael Jackson, that is. If you have a trust, actually put something in it. Most know how literally indebted to the world Michael Jackson was, but if he had placed a few actual, fully-paid-for possessions in trust, the creditors would have probably been unlikely to gain access to those assets. A trust with nothing in it is invalid.
Although I don’t suggest creating a bequest like the late Torontonian, Charles Millar, leaving everything to the Toronto woman who gave birth the most times in the 10 years following his death, I do suggest having something valid in place to protect your family, if not from others, then from themselves.
